Three things that destroy the love between a husband and wife

<p><img src="http://i.onthe.io/vllkyt3ac26o5ue2ng.cff2fdfe.jpg" alt="vllkyt3ac26o5ue2ng.cff2fdfe.jpg" /><strong>The ability to manage conflicts and resolve problems are qualities every man should possess Communication breakdown will always arise between husbands and wives There are three things some men are guilty of in marriage and a few women</strong></p><div style="text-align:center;"><p>Marriage is an institution where no one is expected to graduate from. Learning in marital life continues till death parts each of the spouses, as long as there is no misunderstanding between them, in terms of divorce. A man not listening to his wife due to some misunderstanding</p><p>There are so many things that come between a man and a woman, while as husband and wife. Some of these things bring so much discord between the couple, thereby leading to absence of trust, which is the foundation of marriage. The three things that majorly bring set-backs to holy matrimony are: Extramarital affairs/bigamy/infidelity; alcohol consumption and gambling/going to club 1. Extramarital affairs Either you call it infidelity or adultery or by whatever name you intend calling it, it is one of the main canker worms, rampant in all societies.It is sad to hear stories of a man after saying he is legally married to one wife, having many concubines outside the home. This ugly trend is fast becoming a norm in most societies of the world. About five years ago, a radio presenter in one of the Radio stations in Lagos state gave a shocking information, when he said bigamy is rampant in Lagos state. Bigamy is marrying another person after being in a marriage already. For Allah’s sake, where is the world turning into? Men are more guilty of this. A good number of happy homes have been turned into theatre of sadness due to this unholy act. In one of the Asian countries, the government eased the laws on adultery, as it said, it will not be punishable under the law. This clearly shows, laws made by man, are one of the causes of broken homes, which in turn, affect the children, thereby leading to chaos in the larger society In the Glorious Qur’an, Allah said in chapter 17 verse 32: “And do not approach unlawful intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and evil as a way.” What an excellent instruction from our Creator. However, man believes he knows it all. The resulting effects of fornication, infidelity, bigamy, prostitution and adultery are nothing, but high rate of daily divorce, single parenting and lots of other problems in the society at large. 2. Alcohol intake It has been scientifically proven that alcohol consumption has so much side effects on the metabolic activities of the body. Alcohol consumption has been linked to some forms of cancers. Husbands who are drunkards, do beat up their wives, especially after becoming intoxicated. Alcohol makes someone to lose his mental processes. Some men find it difficult to spend on their wives and children just because of alcohol consumption. They prefer to spend their last kobo, or even steal from their wives on alcohol. Some children at a very young age take after their parents because they drink alcohol. Likewise, women, who sell alcohol bring more problems to their children, especially their daughters.This is because, the mothers’ customers sometimes lure the daughters into unlawful sex, thereby destroying the future of the young girls. Some girls later become wayward and also menace to the society. 3.
Gambling All over the world, gambling has been popularised so much that, even a married woman gambles. This is so sad! It has become an addict of some parents to gamble with the money they ought to spend on their children. When they fail to spend, some children themselves take to crime and other societal vices, which ruin the future of their children. Gambling has been packaged so much that, both educated and illiterates are involved. Allah mentioned both alcohol, gambling and some other evil acts in the chapter 5 verse 91 of His book, Al Qur’an, he said: “Satan only wants to cause between you animosity and hatred through intoxicants (alcohol) and gambling and to avert you from remembrance of Allah and from prayer. So, will you not desist?”</p></div>